It has been 22 months since we were logged in (as of January 13). No end in sight. With the summer olympics in Beijing,
it might be 2009 before we get our referral. We have given up on being optimistic. The best way to muddle through this has become emotional detachment! If we expect 2009, we can't be disappointed anymore! Remembering back to when I choked back tears realizing she wouldn't be home in 2006 almost makes me laugh now!! Almost...
it might be 2009 before we get our referral. We have given up on being optimistic. The best way to muddle through this has become emotional detachment! If we expect 2009, we can't be disappointed anymore! Remembering back to when I choked back tears realizing she wouldn't be home in 2006 almost makes me laugh now!! Almost...
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I hear ya. Emotional detachment does seem like it might be the easiest way to deal with it. I am so very sorry this wait has gotten so completely out of hand.
See you soon.
Tracy
I know exactly what you mean... oh well... what can you do... I too have become 'emotionally detached'... I just have come to the terms that the timing isn't right yet... the wait has become stupid but I have to believe that Shauna hasn't 'come along' yet or like I said... it just isn't time... still... hang in there... take care... I know I am in it for the long haul...
Congrats on 22 months! Best wishes on a speedy referral :)
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